My 31st birthday has come and gone and I'm uber excited about this year! Maybe its because I had the flu on my 30th birthday or the fact that I never go out of my way to celebrate myself. This year I feel… different. I remember texting some of my best friends in a group message saying “Happy Birthday, can't believe its year 31 for us” as our birthdays are literally back to back. My friend responded, “yes, this is our Proverbs 31 year” I love having Jesus loving friends because everything points back to Jesus, I mean EV.ER.Y.THING! After she said that we all laughed and offered a meme or Gif in agreeance. As churchy as it sounded she was so right. This is our Proverbs 31 year. A year to be a down-right boss and I am excited that I am continuing my journey to be the bold woman God called me to be!

Proverbs 31 is a passage in the Bible that many go to that describes a powerful woman. I even made a shirt about that says “DANG GIRL!” you can find that here.

Everytime I read it I always see this image from the movie Friday in my head. The lady described here is straight killing it. Some scholars believe this was an ode to the writer's grandmother none the less she’s a Boss.

For the longest time, I had a hard time digesting these verses. I would often compare myself and fell short in my mind. But when I changed my lens of these verses from being prescriptive instead of descriptive it changed what this verse meant to me. So through this passage, I was inspired to make a list of 31 things I want to be sure I do in the year 31.

31 in 31

Proverbs 31:10- “A good woman is hard to find, and worth more than diamonds.”

  1. Press Deeper into God! Be so into God that I am undetectable to my flesh, the desire to compare myself to others, and being less than what God called me to be.

  2. Get busy working my gift.

  3. Boldly affirm 1 thing about myself daily.

  4. Bask in my husband’s love! I’m so grateful for him

  5. Pray over Justin daily!

  6. Love my lane in our marriage. I may not be the best cook or most organized but I can plan a vacay, be creative in how we spend time and money as a family!

  7. Experiences > Things

  8. Go to Maine!

  9. Intentionally talk to strangers that are completely different than me and just listen to their story.

  10. Find the sweet moments- I often get home late from work and don't have much time to spend with Cam at night. Cam’s normal waking hour is 5 am and I've grown to love it. It's our sweet time together before the sunrise.

  11. This is the year, where we are taking our health back! So I'm excited to cook more!

  12. Seek God consistently in the morning!

  13. Investing more and researching smart financial resources. My girl budget with Belle is great for that (check out her https://www.budgetwithbelle.com/ )!

    (They even have penny accounts like Acron, there are no excuses)

  14. This lady is decisive, my goal this year is to be firm in my decisions made in wisdom,

  15. Acquire property

  16. Organize better, that means starting earlier or the day before.

  17. Ensuring my attitude is eager when I go to work. During this season my ministry is my profession, I'm grateful I get to serve in the marketplace like I'm serving the Lord.

  18. Year 31, she realized her worth! Understanding my value is the theme this year!

  19. My favorite past time is designing our home. Currently we live in an old Mill Loft in RI. One day we hope to build one. So I have started to plan and prepare for that.

  20. Understand that all homemaking is not the same! Sometimes it's working outside the home and bringing it in and other times it's working inside the home to bring it out. Embrace both!

  21. Teach my community the power of sustainable giving!

  22. Always look transitioning people in their eye, and always give them an answer to their questions. Sometimes its a yes and sometimes its a no, but its always HUMAN!

  23. Talk about my Jesus with complete strangers

  24. Always we be a place where my family feels respected and safe.

  25. Be present in everything that makes Justin and Cam light up and even more so in the things that don't!

  26. Press into my creativity more! I love putting our honest faith on clothing! Check out our shop here!

  27. Don't overlook the small things

  28. Enjoy Life! Where life is!

  29. Reach out to my friends whenever prompted by the Spirit! Most of the time God has something to get to them!

  30. Have a coffee date/ lunch with a girlfriend every month.

  31. The ultimate goal is to be everything that God envision when he created me.

“Many women have done wonderful things,

   but you’ve outclassed them all!”

Charm can mislead and beauty soon fades.

   The woman to be admired and praised

   is the woman who lives in the Fear-of-God.

Give her everything she deserves!

   Festoon her life with praises!

Be blessed (or whatever),

Court